There are approximately 400,000 children in the foster care system today, and many people in the LGBTQ+ community are willing to provide them with a loving home. Unfortunately, discrimination remains a significant barrier.
If you are part of this community and want to adopt a child, you should not have to face scrutiny that straight adoptive parents do not. Here is a breakdown of the problem and how you can fight against it.
Many LGBTQ+ people fear discrimination when trying to adopt
A recent study finds that 32% of LGBT adults have seriously considered adoption. However, over a third are deterred by the fear of discrimination based on gender or sexual identity.
There are many ways discrimination happens. For example, some agencies refuse to place children with LGBTQ+ adopters. This usually happens in agencies affiliated with religious groups.
Additionally, many states do not have specific laws banning discrimination against the LGBTQ+ community in the adoption process. This includes Florida.
How discrimination can happen to you
Discrimination can be easily noticeable, but it can also be covert. Here are several signs you should watch out for:
- Unusual or unexplained delays in the adoption process
- Irrelevant questions about your sexual orientation
- Higher standards than heterosexual applicants
- Discouragement or misinformation
- Rejection without a clear reason
You may want to document instances of bias or discrimination. Doing so can help build your case if you file a complaint or take legal action in the future.
You have the right to build a family just like anyone else
No one deserves prejudice or unfair treatment, especially when trying to become a parent to a child who needs one. Sadly, discrimination is something that many LGBTQ+ parents face every day.
The best way to combat inequality is to advocate for your legal protections. Support organizations that push for nondiscrimination laws and file complaints when necessary.
However, change can take some time, but discrimination can have an immediate effect. If you encounter inequality in the adoption process, consider seeking legal advice. A family law attorney can help fight for your right to have a fair opportunity to adopt.