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Changing Your Child’s Name as Lgbtq+ Parents

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If you are an LGBTQ+ parent, changing your child’s name can be a meaningful step but also a legal challenge. Whether affirming gender identity, blending families or making both parents feel equally recognized, the process focuses on identity, belonging and love.

Florida law allows for name changes of minors, but certain steps and approvals are required. As LGBTQ+ parents, you may face unique circumstances, especially if only one parent is legally recognized or if a biological parent objects to the change. 

How to make the name change process smoother

Here are a few things that may help as you prepare:

  • Consent matters: If both legal parents are listed on the birth certificate, you’ll usually need both to agree to the change. If one doesn’t agree, you may need to explain your reasoning to a judge.
  • Think about the best interest of the child: Florida courts base decisions on what supports the child’s well-being. Emotional ties, consistency in identity and community support matter.
  • Include clear, thoughtful reasons: Maybe the new name reflects the child’s gender identity. Or perhaps your child wants the same last name as both parents. The court is more likely to approve the request when the reasoning is well-explained.
  • Be ready with documentation. You may need to show your relationship to the child, consent from the other parent (if required) and proof of your residence in Florida.

Each family’s story is different, and there is no one plan approach. Still, it is good to be ready with how you present your request. Fortunately, the world has become a bit more accommodating to the diverse needs of people, so you don’t have to do it alone. 

If you need help with your child’s name change as an LGBTQ+ parent, you can connect with a Miami-based legal professional for tailored support and guidance. This way, you will comply with state laws and have your personal preference considered.